Showing posts with label Chatawa. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Chatawa. Show all posts

Saturday, November 23, 2019

Grandfather Charlie Married Twice

Charlie Mckay and his wife Julia Bickham McKay
My father passed away this past February, and for something strange reason, I'm learning more about his family since he passed away. I can't explain this type of strange paranormal things. I just go with  the flow and follow the leads. My father didn't discuss his maternal grandfather at all. He talked about his paternal grandfather because he lived with his grandparents sometimes. 

If I would've asked him, he wouldn't tell me anyway. Dad knew how to hold secrets with a smile on his face. Somehow life has a way if of revealing to you the answers you're searching for. Are perhaps the ancestors are ready to tell you. I sometimes wonder if dad wants me to find out now that he is gone, so he won't have to answer my questions. I guess I had to throw that sense of humor in there because that sounds like something he would say.

I can see him smiling and saying, "well-baby" that's just the things were in those days. As if that is telling me somethings important. I think about him often the way he told family stories. I  wonder why he didn't tell me that his maternal grandfather Charlie was married twice and had children by his second wife, Julia Bickham. Charlie and his first wife, Florence Williams has three children. Mary, William, and Lonnie. My direct line is Mary McKay Boykin. Charlie's and his second wife had five children; Albert, Luella, Emily, Prentiss, and May Helen McKay.

I learned through ancestry that one of my great-aunt's just passed away in 2014. I will do my best to find their children and make a connection. I know that they are in Washington Parish, Louisiana. My Charlie was born around 1891 and died in 1961.  He and Florence divorced and left Mississippi and moved to Louisiana. His first wife Florence, died in 1966. His second wife Julia, died in 1977.

I was happy to find any information I could find.  I couldn't find anything on Charlie before the 1880 United States Federal Census.

Questions I need answers to?

Where did Charlie come from? 
Who were his parents? 
Who was his siblings?
Is McKay his true name? 
Why can't  I find anything else on him? 
How much does his descendants in Washington Parish, Louisiana, know about him? 



Finding My Mississippi Roots; Harrell, McKay and Williams

Chatawa, Mississippi
My Mississippi roots are strong. All of my ancestors lived on the border of Louisiana and Mississippi. The Harrell ties are in Amite County, Mississippi, and the McKay and Williams family are tied to Pike County, Mississippi.  I've conducted genealogy research in Amite County Courthouse in Liberty, Mississippi and  Pike County Courthouse. in Pike County, Mississippi. The Amite County Courthouse is the State's oldest courthouse, built- in 1839-41, replaced the original 1812 building located on the historic site. Amite County was formed in 1809 from Wilkerson County. 

Amite County were named after the Amite River. The named derived from the French amitiĆ©, meaning  "friendship" and was used I commemoration of their friendly treatment by the Houma Indians. When you're researching your family history it's important to know when the counties or parish were established. 

I recently started researching my McKay and Williams,  which is on my paternal side of the family. Soon I will to go to the courthouse in the near future to look for records on the two families.  I know that I will have to visit the Mississippi State Archives to search for documents as well. 

I have several family trees based on the surnames that I'm researching. Charlie McKay was listed at a Mulatto in 1910 United States Census. He lived on Chatawa Road. He was married to Florence Williams, and he worked at a  Saw Mill. Charlie and his wife didn't own their own home in 1910, they were renters. The census documented that he couldn't read or write. Charlie was twenty-six years old when the census was taken.

Three children were born at the time; Mary, William, and No Name McKay. My direct line is through Mary. Mary later met and married Ernest Boykin. After they married, they made Fluker, Louisiana their home.